Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from thier perspective only.
the journaling
what things did your spouse point out about you that need your attention? how did you handle hearing it? what do you plan to do to improve these areas?
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Hey Girl,
I know you are down. Allow yourself to be so. Just don't let it drag on. Set a time limit and have a pity party but when the time is up, pick yourself up and dust off.
I wanted to share an email that I received last week. I have been holding on to it knowing that I would share it with someone some day. I think that someone is you, today.
Perks Pearl of Wisdom
"The problem is we put our faith in things.
The thing is we should put our faith in God."
Bob Perks
All stories copyright 2008 Bob Perks
Today's message:
"After"
By Bob Perks
I, like most of you throughout the world, am worried. Everyday brings more gloomy news about the financial future of every country on Earth.
I woke up this morning and decided that I need to take my focus off of now and look to what's ahead. I have been down and desperate many times in my life. I have been lost and out of control. But every time
something bad happened it always ended up good.
So it got me thinking about what things will be like "after" we get back up on our feet again.
After the down there's always an up.
After the leaving there's a return.
After the rain you always find the sun.
After the pain there is joy.
After the trip there may be a fall, but after the fall there's a stand up.
After the end is a new beginning.
After the stop there's a go.
After a sunset is always a rise.
After the night there is day.
After the clouds there are always blue skies.
After the door closes another one opens.
After a wrong there's a right.
After the loss there's a win.
After the sad there's happy.
So...here's the poet in me...
No matter what you are going through or how much you hurt,
I want you to know what's ahead.
There's always an after that follows before and eternity after you're dead.
Smile!
We'll get through this together.
"I believe in you!"
Bob
I encourage you to share my stories but I do ask that you
keep my name and contact information with my work.
If you would like to receive Bob's Inspirational
stories, please visit http://www.IWishYouEnough.com
and submit your email address.
Hang in there, girl.
don't forget to breathe.
~ blondie
blondie, i love you, you have given me so much strength, but tonite, tonite was bad and i am not sure if I can get past it, his actions, his words, and lastly me here alone AGAIN because of that beeotch. since she is reading this, dont ya wish she would post lol? I so bet you my dear could take her on!
thank you and love you
Hey. what is up with your email addy? I attempted to email you and it came back. Can you fix it or leave it in a comment? Well, unless you don't want some crazy blondie emailing you. *tee hee*
*hugs*
~ b
it is kansascwgrl@wmconnect.com
T are you up yet this morning? Love to have a cup of coffee with you!
Well, I got up drank coffee with my name sake over the phone, prayed, and DID my love dare anyway! the devil she isnt gonna win this one, nope. I went on and did it. now we can pray lol!!
love u all!
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